Monday blues
Feeling very lethargic this morning

Complete the Netflix series yesterday
Love is Blind
An experiment with men and women talking within the pods
Not seeing each other till they proposed
Handphones were kept
And all they can do is talk within the pods with a thin wall between them

After the proposal and acceptance
The very first time they will see each other that they feel connected through verbal communication
And then having slightly more than a month to prepare for their wedding
 An experiment to see if Love is really Blind

Well, following through the series
Especially after the couples first met each other
Having a mini-honeymoon
Stay together
Plan for the wedding

Many issues and differences definitely came out
Age. race, acceptability of the family, social media influence, etc.

While they were at the pods, there were no other influence and purely just talking to know each other more
Yet, staying together, the daily conflicts, the facial expression which doesnt tally with the words said
It is a whole lot of differences
Butterflies had before might go away with the reality
But who relies on butterflies to preserve the love?

For me, I do believe that butterflies trigger the falling in love spell
Yet, for a lasting love or what we always go after forever love,
It takes more than that.
Understanding, communicating, compromising, being supportive
Are something to continuously be done
Keeping the love warmth and growing

Relationship is a lifelong lesson
No definite rationale behind keeping a relationship strong

So much of reflection from a series.
But a good think through I feel
Never to take people around you for granted
Treasure them
Hold them tight
Even though some may hurt you
Nevertheless, Love is all that matters

New start of the month!
Hope everything gets better!

Aja aja fighting!
Till then peeps~